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Keep Spirits Up

WHEN TO USE THISA long emergency. Morale decides whether your family holds together.

1. A schedule and a job

   • A daily routine, even if it feels pointless — wake, meals, chores, rest.
   • Everyone gets a job, kids included. "Keep the water bottles full."
   • Having a job means being needed. Idleness drags everyone down.

2. Protect sleep and meals

   • Lack of sleep wrecks morale fastest. Take turns keeping watch.
   • Eat on a schedule, even when food is rationed.
   • Something warm lifts spirits more than its calories. Hot tea or coffee is an event.

3. Play

   • Cards, games, stories, singing, reading, drawing — not luxuries.
   • Keep a deck of cards in your kit.
   • For kids, any play helps them heal.
   • Talk about anything but the emergency, too.

4. Say the wins out loud

   • "We made it through another day." "The water system works."
   • Share good news. Mark milestones.
   • Name the fear and the tiredness — without dwelling.
   • "This is hard, and we're handling it."
   Why

   Hope is the resource a long emergency runs out of first. Saying progress out loud makes it real for everyone.

Sources: SAMHSA Tips for Survivors of a Disaster · US Army Combat and Operational Stress Control (FM 4-02.51)

General information to help in an emergency — not a substitute for training or professional care.